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Exhausting Anger

I’ve been dealing with a lot of anger recently. Not just my own, but clients too. Then there are my friends, who seem to be falling into all sorts of fights, for reasons about which they have no idea. And, as for the wider population of the UK capital’s population, well, it’s hard to know…

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Determining the Mindset

I had a client once who was particularly proud of her determination. She was someone who kept on going come what may. You know the old saying: “If you want something done, ask a busy person”? Well, that was her. She was reliable, contentious and you knew she’d deliver miracles if you only had the…

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My Mother, My Self

I’ve recently been urged to read a book telling the story of a mother and her two daughters. The secret the mother has been keeping is revealed to the daughters at the bedside of the dying husband and father. At least that’s what I understand from the publicity “blurb” and what my friend tells me….

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Beware the Monsters

Do you remember as a child being afraid of monsters under the bed? Me too. It was scary. If you had reasonably thoughtful and loving parents, you might remember this as only a temporary phase because sooner rather than later you would come to believe your parents’ reassurance that there was nothing there. A little…

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On the Couch with AI

Artificial intelligence – AI – is the topic of the moment. It is rumoured to have the potential to be all things to all people. Before long, we are told, we humans will be losing our jobs to AI, which will be far more able and efficient than an ordinary sentient being such as you…

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Punishment Fitting the Crime?

No mentioning names but there’s been one story in the news over the past few weeks and it’s recently come to a head. The story came out in 2019 with a near-fatal self-inflicted wound caused by a disastrous public interview that saw the beginning of the end for this privileged individual. Rumours about behaviour and…

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Anger – it’s all the rage

I’m finding I’m doing quite well at the moment when it comes to anger management issues. Where once I might have found myself in the middle of a full-blown row, I’ve managed to avoid it. There’s one I failed with but that has decades of history behind it and I’m still working on my controlling…

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Unpacking the Holiday Detritus

I’ve returned recently from a holiday where I packed all but the kitchen sink and, if there’d been a fold-up version, it would have gone in too. My suitcase was so full I had to sit on it to make the zip bits come together as I acknowledged there’d be no chance of bringing back…

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